So my youngest is only just starting nursery and I am already stressed about school for him.
A school with a hearing impairment wing
Mainstream school
A school for deaf children
Even possibly a school for autism
Eli is his own entity. He isn't a black and white case. He has a lot if people stumped. He is bloody clever and gets across what he wants in his own way. But communicating with speech or sign language has a barrier of some kind there. It's more then just his deafness. We know with his cochlear implants he is hearing and understanding what we are saying. He understands the words yes and no. But more then that he understands the tones in which they are spoken.
He mimics body movement he bloody loves it. It's one of his favorite games. But doesn't mimic words.
He will mimic sign but doesn't use it as a way to communicate
So the idea of my 4 year old possibly not talking and starting school is scary. We have to make decisions soon based on where he is currently at but not knowing where he might be at. You see a year is a long time and a lot can change. But we don't know what them changes might be. Whether he will work through the barrier and speech come along. Or we find a reason for the barrier. The word autism has been mentioned to us a few times not but Eli doesn't present the "typical" signs for autism at the same time. For example his eye contact can be amazing. He will cuddle someone to say sorry for hurting them once he realises there sad. Both not textbook autism signs. But in the other hand he will be all consumed in a task and not acknowledge anyone else is in the room. He will hurt himself when frustrated, he will sensory seel with water, his blanket and big deep cuddles. Because we have a lot unknown how am I suppose to decide where is best when so much is unknown already.
I think writing here is going to be my jumbled thoughts but is going to be a. Great way to get it all out. There isn't going to be great endings or elegant writing. Theres going to be messy ramblings of a mama.